Approach

Approach

What do we do during a session? We talk and think together. And we talk and think freely. I do not discriminate thoughts or feelings, and I do not discriminate psychotherapeutic techniques. You may share anything that you believe is relevant (and the very fact that you believe it to be relevant makes it so) and I will employ whatever techniques I believe are most powerful to help you.

As a registered psychotherapist I am well versed in both theory and practice of many schools of thought, including:

Relational Trauma Response (RTR) Theory

(Also known as complex post-traumaticstress disorder or C-PTSD)

Relational GestaltTherapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACE) incorporating parts of Solutions-Focussed Therapy (SFT) and
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

Jungian Theory

I combine my professional knowledge and skills with perspectives and wisdoms that I have acquired through life experience. Nothing teaches you about life quite like life itself, and you might on occasion hear me share some of my own experiences to exemplify or explain a concept.

Our dialogue is fundamental to what we achieve together. You could find endless bookshelves of studies into the benefits of this format, which I base on relational Gestalt therapy. For now, though, I thought to give you a brief background as to why it’s so efficient.

Much like a ball is “round” only because we can compare it to other shapes that are not, we define our own identity by relating to other people in our lives. Without relationships, there simply is no identity. Every human being depends on others to continually build and maintain a sense of self. This means that neither you nor I or anyone else will ever be truly independent or self-sufficient (and when things work as they should, there is something very beautiful about that). But we can still be free.

The key is to realise just how relationships affect you, and to learn to consciously consider thoughts and feelings instead of unconsciously letting them become part of your inner world. Our dialogue represents a safe testing ground for you to explore the mechanics of this process.

By engaging in therapeutic dialogue, you also develop a language for discussing new concepts. This is of great importance, because it’s incredibly difficult to understand something for which you do not yet have words. And giving you powerful tools is central to what I do.

Which brings me to my last point…

THIS…

CHANGES EVERYTHING.

I not only aim for my psychotherapy services to resolve particular issues; I also serve to give you a deep understanding of this condition that we all find ourselves in. The human condition.

By talking and thinking together, we acquire true wisdoms – something that you can apply in all aspects of life. Perhaps at times to lift yourself out of an emotional abyss. At other times, simply to get more out of your relationships, your family, your work and your favourite pastimes.

Shortly put, I’m in the business of thriving.